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April 24th, 2011

Sex, hook-ups, and the slut factor.

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Written by: James H. Williams IV
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Sex
Sex is a beautiful event. Sex should not be taboo; it should be celebrated. Whether you enjoy someone of the opposite sex, same sex, or even your hand, sex should be praised in its ability to bring people closer together, or at least as an extracurricular activity.

Hook-Ups
Hook-ups are healthy. If you are not with a steady partner, finding people to sleep with whether at a party, craigslist, or with friends can help you in more ways than one. For starters, sex is a great work out. It gets your heart pumping and your body moving. Secondly, practice makes perfect. The more you practice anything, the better you get at it. Additionally, random hook-ups give you variety. That standard blue background on your computer might be cool for the first couple days, but after a while it gets boring. Luckily, System Settings allow you to change it when you’re bored and need a new one. Don’t like it right after you changed it? No worries, find a new one and there you go. The only issue you may run into will be addressed in the next topic.

Slut Factor
Sex is natural, yet, human nature causes us to constantly judge. How you carry yourself when you are sexually active (and even if you are not) says a lot about you. We all have been to the party with that girl who shows more butt than skirt and more breast than bra. But what makes us, as human beings with capacity to judge, call her a slut?

Self image.

Let’s call the girl from above, Girl A. Now let’s look at Girl B who also goes out to parties too but dresses in clothes that cover her hoo-ha and tatas. Not necessarily fully covering, but more so than Girl A.


Based on your own assumptions which do you think would classify under the certain terminology by today’s standards?

Granted, the actual sexual history of both women is unknown by the viewer, but one walking down the street might instantly create a number for each woman.

What I am getting at is that your sexual history can be hidden or exposed by the way you dress. Whether you have slept with one person or fifty, the way you present yourself in public will be the way that others will judge you at first glance.

Side Note: I used woman as an example purely as an example. The same applies to men as well.


About the Author

James H. Williams IV
I was born and raised in Chicago's south-side neighbourhood of Hyde Park. I am currently a student at Indiana University majoring in art management. I am a painter, musician, and photographer. I attended The Latin School of Chicago for high school and there I developed my interest for writing.




 
 

 
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